I need help with people o.o?

Question

People don't like me, that's the problem. Guys don't like me because im a girl, and girls don't like me because im not into the hole happy life things. Such as unicorns and the color pink. Or pop music. I went to 8th grade this year and its my first time ever at a school. People don't know me enough to like me. But a lot of people know me, every day i sit by my self to eat lunch or wait for the bell to ring. I sit by a tree or at my desk quietly. And when i try to get into a conversation that people are talking about near me they ignore me. Then they complain that im to quiet and that makes me a freak. Iv only had one friend in my life so im not much of a talking person. Now people are labling me to being this emotionl person (aka emo) i dont want to be that. It scares people away from me and i dont need help scareing them away. I dont know what i should do, my teachers are now geting mad at me bacause they dont hear me talk to anyone. Only them and only answer questions they ask. And she says i should see a docter about that. I think she thinks im like depressed or crazy or something but im not. I just dont have friends so what should i do?

Answer 1

I know what you're feeling. I spent a few months at a new middle school before I finally met a friend. and he isn't my friend anymore, meaning that things change A lot in school. first off, the preppy pink unicorn girls aren't the only group in your school. I've never been to your school but there's more than just one clique. so try to avoid them. find another group or just ask a group of people if you can sit down next to them. if they decline find someone else. people can be jerks but it shouldn't get you down. and don't hope for someone to find you, if you want friends you have to be confident and approach them. if they don't know, change that. get your personality out. I hope I helped a little.

Answer 2

Dear Rima,You need to make yourself talk, the more you do , the easier it gets. Look at people in the eye, smile, even if you son't feel like it. It becomes a habit. No one cares if you like pink or pop music, Be yourself but inside, give yourself a little push. Everyone is unsure, EVERYONE, they just fake it better.Good luck and smile!!!

Answer 3

thats where your problem lies, "middle school" kids in middle school are still just getting out of the stage of differences especially if you go to a private school, high school will be different or well it should be. broader range of kids and more of em, some not all are more mature. middle school was kinda like that for me, i went to a school full of preps and i was punk wearing a chain and what not and people actually made fun of because i was like that. my teachers didn't like so i started doing poorly in school. got in high school and found people "better"sooted for my appetite

Answer 4

find other emos. shouldnt be a huge problem to find more emos in a high school. also try facebook and check it for others at your school.

Answer 5

can you join some activity or a club? where are you? if possible join a Dale Carnegie workshop or club - that really helps.