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Perhaps yes. Perhaps no. As a writer, I have learned that we have to be careful when we argue semantics, esp. since the same word can mean different things to different people. This is because words bear meaning only in context, and meaning can change from person to person, and situation to situation. For one person, "my girlfriend," may connote possessiveness or objectification. For another person, "my girlfriend" can connote a sense of love, togetherness, or belonging together (in this moment or season)--not ownership. No one owns anyone, and people are not our personal playthings, no matter what we say or what words we use. And our relationships to/with one another do not define us. On the flip side of the coin, I have seen that the vast majority of people who object to these terms usu. have serious commitment issues. In other words, they object to being called "my boyfriend," "my husband" or "my wife" because of the baggage or associations they have attached to these terms and do not wish to be held to any relationship agreements. So, their rejection of these terms is really a matter of claiming their right to be, shall we say, "fluid," distant, and unattached. I used to flinch, for ex., when my soon-to-be ex-husband would plaintively call me "my wife" in the last year of our marriage. I perceived this as a attempt to manipulate me and claim ownership because in my heart I knew our days as a married couple were numbered. Charlotte Kasl, in her book If the Buddha Married, writes that married couples should be careful not to say "my husband" or "my wife"--that it is better to call each person by name. I tend to agree. There is nothing like hearing the sound of my name coming from the mouth and voice of a lover or loved one. At the same time, if the tone is not one of possessiveness, objectification, or manipulation, I do not object to a loved one referring to me as "my friend," "my sister goddess" (Thanks Rhonda), "my compa" (as in Starhawk's The Fifth Sacred Thing), or "my woman." It all depends on the intention and the tone.